08/05/14 02:01:49
80 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-11-29 11:13 ID:m6PMBegr [Del] I'm in a large city in Japan. I'm also female.
I'm NOT from the United States (this may or may not be a factor)
but I have had lots of good luck and offers from the men of Japan.
The trick, imo:
1)Physical appearance. Honestly I'm not the prettiest girl, but I seem to be among the more fussy of the women I meet.
I take care of my appearance and try to look nice. I also look quite young. Also... not like a strung out crack addict-ho.
2) I'm slim. I can wear the clothes here without problem. I think Size does matter here. No one likes a fatty.
It's NOT beautiful, it's unhealthy.
3) I'm INTERESTING and curious. I smile and I'm polite, unless someone is rude--which is rare, but does happen.
4) I am terrible in Japanese, but I show sincere effort in learning/speaking.
5) I am mindful of Japanese societal rules. I'm not loud in the subways or elevators. That said, I don't take shit from anyone.
I'd say Whites are often popular in Japan. But as a token pet or status symbol.
The only real reason I can think of for people not getting boyfriends is because they're somehow offensive to the japanese
(Either ugly, or loud/rude or an ass...) or the facft that most of us are Going Home.
Why would you get into a relationship with someone who could leave in a week and never come back?