10/05/04 06:16:00
>>249 Looks are important,everyone should try to look their best,
actually trying to look good is nicer than looking good by default.
Men and women should groom well for comfortable social interaction.
So there should be a group meeting to discuss the skills, habits, likes, dislikes
etc. The women should ask specifically :
What can he cook? How is he with the housework?
Is he able to care for a woman, is he willing to learn?
Is he able to take away her worries, comfort her tired mind?
Can he for instance clear the table and and run a bath for her,
after dinner? etc etc
What manga/anime/film/music is he into? What are his must-have
hobbies?
Likewise, the hikki asks the woman what she is willing to do.
Will she provide for both of them? Buy his manga/anime/film/music?
What does she expect in the evening? What can she give?
This is a partnership contract that should be time limited.
Say, you commit to it for a day, week, month and three months.
After that all ties are severed unless the both are willing to
continue.
Also it should be in written contract as to exactly what conditions
they have agreed to.
So these issues, normally not talked between dating couples, should be resolved
much before, and a synergy is found rather than clashing interests.
Think of it companies merging for profit, not people making sacrifices.
like in a relationship.That way chances of success would be high.
It is like having good flatmates, rather than romantic relationships.
I think it is better than a relationship,